Introvert Communication Skills: 9 Moves That Make You Magnetic
From The Wizard of Words.
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You don't have to get louder to be magnetic. The quiet people everyone leans toward aren't more confident than you. They have a plan. In this video I give you nine moves, three chapters, for work and for home: how to walk into a room without a big leap of courage, exactly what to say when someone puts you on the spot, and the body language that makes people trust you before you open your mouth.
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THE SENTENCE FROM THE VIDEO
"Putting ___ aside, what I think about ___ is ___. I'm going to leave it there. What do you think?"
Compose it in advance. Recite it in the moment. Then stop talking.
⏱️ CHAPTERS
00:00 Magnetic On The Spot
00:58 Three Entry Moves
02:12 Confidence Comes After
02:57 Compose Then Recite
04:16 Silence That Wins
05:49 Stillness Body Language
07:14 Nine Moves Recap
07:41 Alliance And Next Steps
YOUR NINE MOVES
The Arrival: 1 The Threshold · 2 The One · 3 The Question and the Quiet
The Answer: 4 The Set-Aside · 5 The Position · 6 The Handback
The Stillness: 7 Still Head · 8 Still Face · 9 Still Hands
Remember: act yourself into a new way of thinking. Don't think yourself into a new way of acting. The confidence shows up afterward.
💬 Put the one line you're going to use this week in the comments. If you see someone else's that matches yours, or you tried it and it worked, reply to them. We are an alliance that is lifting each other up and out.
▶️ WATCH NEXT
Why Some People Are Magnetic (It's Not Charisma): https://youtu.be/G2HqdQNqagM
Never Defend Yourself. Say This Instead: https://youtu.be/ZYPM9D3iLWc
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ABOUT DAN O'CONNOR
I'm Dan O'Connor, The Wizard of Words. For more than 30 years I've trained people in psychological communication: what to say, how to say it, and how to stay connected to yourself while you do. This channel is for anyone who wants communication skills training that works at the office and at home, from a communication coach who gives you the exact words.
Subscribe: https://www.youtube.com/@TheWizardOfWords
Website: https://www.danoconnortraining.com
There's nothing you have to say that you can't say in a more loving way. Including nothing at all.
#communicationskills #charisma #howtobemagnetic
🎓 Want more? Join my course, Never Defend Yourself Again, and become one of my students:
https://www.danoconnortraining.com/never-defend-again
THE SENTENCE FROM THE VIDEO
"Putting ___ aside, what I think about ___ is ___. I'm going to leave it there. What do you think?"
Compose it in advance. Recite it in the moment. Then stop talking.
⏱️ CHAPTERS
00:00 Magnetic On The Spot
00:58 Three Entry Moves
02:12 Confidence Comes After
02:57 Compose Then Recite
04:16 Silence That Wins
05:49 Stillness Body Language
07:14 Nine Moves Recap
07:41 Alliance And Next Steps
YOUR NINE MOVES
The Arrival: 1 The Threshold · 2 The One · 3 The Question and the Quiet
The Answer: 4 The Set-Aside · 5 The Position · 6 The Handback
The Stillness: 7 Still Head · 8 Still Face · 9 Still Hands
Remember: act yourself into a new way of thinking. Don't think yourself into a new way of acting. The confidence shows up afterward.
💬 Put the one line you're going to use this week in the comments. If you see someone else's that matches yours, or you tried it and it worked, reply to them. We are an alliance that is lifting each other up and out.
▶️ WATCH NEXT
Why Some People Are Magnetic (It's Not Charisma): https://youtu.be/G2HqdQNqagM
Never Defend Yourself. Say This Instead: https://youtu.be/ZYPM9D3iLWc
❤️ SUPPORT THE CHANNEL
If you got value from this, subscribe, like and share. That keeps the free videos coming. Hit JOIN to support my work directly:
https://www.youtube.com/@TheWizardOfWords/join
ABOUT DAN O'CONNOR
I'm Dan O'Connor, The Wizard of Words. For more than 30 years I've trained people in psychological communication: what to say, how to say it, and how to stay connected to yourself while you do. This channel is for anyone who wants communication skills training that works at the office and at home, from a communication coach who gives you the exact words.
Subscribe: https://www.youtube.com/@TheWizardOfWords
Website: https://www.danoconnortraining.com
There's nothing you have to say that you can't say in a more loving way. Including nothing at all.
#communicationskills #charisma #howtobemagnetic
