Perspectives & Self Help

Nice isn't kind. Nice is why people walk all over you, and the word itself literally means "not knowing." Here are 6 swaps from nice to kind, word for word, so you can stop people-pleasing, stop abandoning yourself,…

Your boss is wrong, and you know it. Most people either swallow it or argue and become "the difficult one." This video teaches you the pronoun rule: where to put you, we, they, them, it and that so…

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He once wished for a completely different face. Today, Jono says he loves it. In this episode of LADbible Stories’ Honesty Box, he answers your questions about living with Treacher Collins syndrome, growing up with a visible difference…

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Never answer a rude question. Say this instead. "So what'd you end up paying for your house?" "When are you two getting married?" Don't answer it. Use the three W's — why, what and which — and make…

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How can you tell if someone is lying? Retired Secret Service agent, Brad Beeler, explains how to spot a liar and why most of what you've heard about lie detection is wrong. In this episode of Explainer for…

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British Prime Minister, @AndyBurnham, sits down with a group of GenZers for an episode of Agree to Disagree as he fields questions from a generation that believes they've had it harder than any before. In this episode, Andy…

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Somebody taps a glass and says, "Why don't you say a few words?" Every head turns. Here are the 5 lines that let you speak at any occasion, a holiday party, a wedding, a birthday, even a memorial,…

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Coworker throws you under the bus in front of your boss? Don't defend yourself. Here are the exact words to say when someone blames you in a meeting, takes credit for fixing your work, says "we're still waiting…

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Your coworker made a mistake, and someone piles on in the meeting. Most people go quiet or join in. Here's the one line that protects her, keeps the focus on fixing the problem, and makes everyone else in…

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Micromanaging boss? Don't defend yourself. Here are the exact words to say when your boss checks every email, wants an update three times a day, rewrites your work, or makes you feel like you're on probation. After 30…

Andy Chaggar was 27 and travelling the world with his partner, Nova, when the Boxing Day tsunami of 2004 destroyed their beach bungalow in Khao Lak, Thailand. This is his story of survival, loss and what came after.…

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