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"I've lost my virginity twice!"

In this episode of Honesty Box, penile cancer survivor Steve Hamill answers the questions people are often too afraid to ask about losing part of his penis to cancer.

Diagnosed at just 26 years old, Steve opens up about discovering his symptoms, receiving his diagnosis and undergoing life-changing surgery that involved the removal of four inches of his penis.

Steve discusses the physical and emotional impact of penile cancer, from recovering after surgery and adjusting to his body to navigating dating, relationships, sex and intimacy. He also shares how his diagnosis affected his mental health, how humour helped him through some of his darkest moments and what life is really like after penile cancer treatment.

Speaking candidly about men's health, cancer symptoms, body image and life after cancer, Steve hopes to break the stigma surrounding penile cancer and encourage more men to recognise the warning signs and seek medical advice.

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Chapters:

00:00 Intro

00:32 What were the first signs something was wrong down there?

01:11 How much did it hurt?

02:01 How much did you lose?

02:19 What exactly is a partial penectomy?

05:00 Did you experience phantom pain or sensation?

06:07 What was sex like for the first time after your operation?

07:00 Have your mates been supportive?

08:33 Can I see a photo?

08:57 Do you feel less of a man?

09:32 Is it difficult to use the toilet?

10:08 Can you still get erections?

10:34 Do women you date actually care about size?

10:52 Hardest moment for you?

13:43 Would you get a bionic penis?

14:29 Isn’t it something that only happens to older men?

15:19 How has your amputation affected your dating life?

16:53 Why is talking about penises and penile cancer a taboo?

18:18 What symptoms should I look out for?

19:09 What have you learned through this experience?

19:28 Why have you told everyone?

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